The Legacy of Dell

 

Dell on our Red Deer River adventure in 2004

There is an axiom that says, "It takes a community to raise a child."  What happens when one of those community members is Dell?  

Dell has made a lasting impression on me and countless others.  Just off hand, I would include the scouts he led, many of the people who worked with him doing concrete, his friends and family members.  Then there are the myriad of others whose lives he touched just because he shared a class with them, drank at a pub with him, or knew him as a lover.  

Dell's impact was always colourful, but not always appreciated.  It was who he was, and he never made an excuse for it.  He was born to lead, to stand out in whatever capacity destiny would sculpt for him, and on the way he made a difference in each and every encounter.

Think carefully about the people who have had a major impact on the person you are today.  If Dell was one of those people, you are not alone.

Dell gave me a passion for cards, free-style camping, and working hard, no matter the obstacles.  I have always had issues with anxiety and discouragement, but when I was around Dell I found those aspects diminishing.  He inspired me, and others, to be better.  And when the task became too much, he was there to lend a hand.

That particular characteristic of Dell's is perhaps his greatest legacy.  He was there to help when it was needed or sought.  He often provided employment, included you in his plans, and involved himself in family issues.  You may not have agreed with him, but you can be sure that his presence was felt.  

Dell made a significant difference in my life.  I am a better person today for having known him.  Although he has been gone from us for almost 14 years now, I still feel his impact.  

Dell's legacy is us, the people he loved and those lives he touched.  Thanks, Dell, we all miss you terribly.

Thanks for reading. 

Eric Svendsen     www.ericspix.com

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