Keeping in touch with old friends by spending time together.
Eric, Kathryn, and Steve in Edmonton, Alberta. People move. Times change. Family, work, health, and life - they get in the way of keeping in touch. But that doesn't mean those who once were an important part of your life have to disappear. You can renew, refresh, and reaffirm those relationships by using that rare commodity we all covet - time. The first thing is that you can't keep in touch with everyone. You have to be selective. I keep in touch with those who are interested in me/us. If people appear disinterested, dismissive, or emotionally distant, that's a good sign that trying to maintain a relationship just won't work out. That's OK, although I have to admit it hurts, especially when you thought you were an important part of their lives. You have to move on. The next thing is to touch base once in a while. A phone call. Mail (remember that?). Electronic connections. But the best way is being as direct ...